Arleen did an outstanding job addressing our middle and high school students on the topic of chastity. She is a gifted speaker who is able to clearly articulate the significance of the virtue of chastity based on the truth found in scripture. Her approach is unique and engaging leaving the audience feeling loved and inspired.Jacob Vandemark
Director of Community Relations & Chapel Coordinator for Hernando Christian Academy

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Upcoming Events:

Past Events:

  Date Event / Event Details City / More Info
+ 02/13/2016
Women's Conference Des Moines, IA
  Sponsor:Diocese of Des Moines 
+ 02/06/2016
St. Vincent de Paul Regional Seminary Young Adult Retreat Boynton Beach, FL
  Venue:St. Vincent de Paul Regional Seminary
10701 S Military Trail
Boynton Beach, FL
+ 09/26/2015
Spirit FM Women's Conference Tampa, FL
  Sponsor:Spirit FM 
Venue:St. Lawrence Catholic Church
5225 North Himes Ave.
Tampa, FL
+ 06/02/2015
6:30 p.m.
Theology on Tap Naples, FL
  Sponsor:St. John's Young Adults 
Venue:St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church
625 111th Ave. N.
Naples, FL
+ 05/14/2015
7 p.m.
REAL LIFE Night Brandon, FL
Sponsor:REAL LIFE Young Adult Group
Venue:Nativity Catholic Church
705 E Brandon Blvd.
Brandon, FL
+ 04/20/2015
7 p.m.
Spirits and Spirituality Odessa, FL
  Sponsor:St. Tim's Catholic ChurchPublic Event
Venue:The Wild Rover
8740 N Mobley Road
Odessa, FL
+ 04/16/2015
5:30 p.m.
After Mass Gainesville, FL
Venue:St. Augustine's
1738 W University Ave.
Gainesville, FL
+ 04/12/2015
7 p.m.
Youth Group Lutz, FL
  Sponsor:St. Tim'sPrivate Event
+ 03/21/2015
6 p.m.
Banquet of Life Spring Hill, FL
Sponsor:Foundations of Life Pregnancy Center
Venue:The Palace Grand
275 Della Court
Spring Hill, FL 34606
+ 03/11/2015
8 p.m.
Young Adult Group Land O' Lakes, FL
  Keynote:Practicing Chastity In a Culture That Calls It CrazyPublic Event
Venue:Our Lady of the Rosary Catholic Church
2348 Collier Parkway
Land O' Lakes, FL
+ 03/03/2015
6:30 p.m.
Practicing Chastity in a Culture that Calls it Crazy Athens, GA
  Venue:St. Joseph Catholic Church
958 Epps Bridge Parkway
Athens, GA
+ 02/27/2015
7 p.m.
Young Adult Group Spring Hill, FL
  Venue:Northcliffe Baptist Church
10515 Northcliffe Blvd.
Spring Hill, FL
+ 02/25/2015
Private Event  
+ 02/10/2015
7 p.m.
Theology on Tap St. Louis, MO
  Sponsor:Archdiocese of St. LouisPublic Event
Venue:Kirkwood Station Brewing
105 E Jefferson Ave.
St. Louis, MO
+ 12/13/2014
6:30 p.m.
Chastity Is For Lovers New York, NY
  Sponsor:Catholic Fellowship of NYC 
Venue:The Church of the Holy Innocents
128 W 37th St. (between Broadway and 7th Ave.)
New York, NY
+ 12/06/2014
1-3 p.m.
Book Launch Party Tampa, FL
  Sponsor:CTK Young Adult MinistryPublic Event
Venue:Christ the King Catholic Church (on the 2nd floor of the Mary Martha Center)
821 S Dale Mabry Hwy
Tampa, FL
+ 12/05/2014
7-9 p.m.
Book Launch Party Spring Hill, FL
  Sponsor:St. Frances Cabrini Young Adult MinistryPublic Event
Venue:St. Frances Cabrini Catholic Church (Xavier Hall)
5030 Mariner Blvd.
Spring Hill, FL
+ 10/27/2014
7 p.m.
Theology on Tap Downtown Lakeland, FL
  Venue:Molly McHugh's
111 S. Kentucky Ave.
Downtown Lakeland, FL
Public Event
+ 09/24/2014
7 p.m.
Young Adult Bible Study San Diego, CA
  Keynote:"Practicing Chastity in a Culture That Says We Shouldn't"Public Event
Venue:St. Brigid Catholic Church
4735 Cass Street
San Diego, CA
+ 09/20/2014
7:30 a.m. to 2 p.m.
"My Life. My Faith." | Spirit FM's Catholic Women's Conference Brandon, FL
  Other:I'll meet and greet attendees at my table, and will have Chastity is For Lovers shirts for sale, plus other swag.Public Event
Venue:Nativity Catholic Church
705 E Brandon Blvd.
Brandon, FL 33511
+ 08/06/2014
6:30-8:30 p.m.
Theology on Tap Spring Hill, FL
  Keynote:Chastity is For LoversPublic Event
Sponsor:Hernando Theology on Tap
1320 Commercial Way
Spring Hill, FL
+ 05/29/2014
7:30 p.m.
Speaking at Nativity Catholic Church Brandon, FL
  Topic:Saving Sex In a Culture That Thinks We Can't 
Venue:Nativity Catholic Church
705 East Brandon Boulevard
Brandon, FL 33511
(813) 681-4608


“Arleen speaks truth into to the hearts of the young Church. She is dynamic and engaging, a storyteller and a teacher. Arleen delivers the truth unapologetically yet with love and humor. She presents the Church’s teachings on chastity and love in a way that makes sense while appealing to people at every stage in their journey of faith.” | Jason Carter, Emcee for Hernando Theology on Tap and Director of Youth and Young Adult Ministry, St. Frances Cabrini Church in Spring Hill, Fla.

“Spenceley presented such an authentic, honest, personal message of chastity while being fully aware of today’s current culture of sexual impropriety. (She) showed great stage presence and spoke in a way that everyone present could easily understand, (and) offered practical tips and encouragement to living in a way that would not only help single young adults stay chaste but really find true love.” | Justin Lantz, Director of Young Adult Ministry, Nativity Catholic Church in Brandon, Fla.

“Arleen was a tremendous inspiration to our group. With great zeal, she delivered a compelling talk about a topic regarded by the majority of society as ‘prude’ and ‘old-fashioned,’ and it resonated with many of our young adult group members.” | Ernie, Christ the King Catholic Church in Tampa

“Last night, a few friends went to a young adult group again. It was great and much needed. Arleen Spenceley ran the night on a great discussion on marrying young. She is funny and engaging. ” | Sarah, blogger at