Your Ex Just Might Be Right

“What do I do that most annoys you?”

I wanted to bolt before my mom could answer my question.

While I waited for her answer, I forgot why I even had asked. I had listened to an interview with organizational psychologist Tasha Eurich, who has studied self-awareness. One way to increase your self-awareness is to host what Eurich calls a “dinner of truth.” Invite a trusted loved one out for food and ask him or her what I asked my mom.

And, oh, it is terrifying. 

My eyes were probably closed, my heart probably pounding while I waited to find out what I do that bothers people.

Here’s what my mom said.